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String fullTitle = '/atoga/ ask the opposite gender anything';
int postNumber = "31092793";
String image = Eclectus-parrot-10021166-resized-56a0a1283df78cafdaa36ff6-2679473977.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)15:58:00';
String comment = 'We stick to the topic edition
Prev >>31090477
>>Captcha DROP';
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String fullTitle = 'psoriasis';
int postNumber = "31091789";
String image = 1713368685934425.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)12:34:30';
String comment = 'as a man with come-and-go psoriasis, how would a woman view it during sex? its all over my body. how do i cut down on my diet whilst still putting in calories? we aren't an especially well off family, so being picky is frowned upon. almost everything else is fixed or being worked on, but my psoriasis still lives on. i recently started using black african soap because i heard it helps dry skin (allegedly psoriasis as well). what else can i do';
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String fullTitle = 'I don't know how to please my parents';
int postNumber = "31092687";
String image = l.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)15:24:31';
String comment = 'I'm in university and live with my parents still since they don't want me or themselves to waste money on housing for me, my dad laughs and makes fun of me constantly, the past few years he has gotten way more egotistical than he ever was and treats everyone in the family as peasants, he always puts on a mask with other people end pretends that he loves me or that my house is a happy one when it's him constantly yelling at me for not doing something right, the worst part is when I actually try hard to do something, minor errands and fuck up a little but he still laughs at me, tells me im worthless and that I don't help around and that I just eat and sleep when I had a job last year, first year of uni and am now in search of another one. Despite the fact I'm studying he doesn't care, he just calls me worthless and retarded all the time and I genuinely don't know what to do because even if everything is going smoothly and I'm trying my hardest he will get pissed at some random shit and yell at me over it. he sometimes comes to me with a grin after yelling at me and tells me "go pick up your dogs shit". I probably shouldn't ask for sympathy on 4chan but I haven't been here in a while and I want to hear people's opinions on this. Image unrelated btw';
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String fullTitle = 'Guy showed up on date wearing a suit...';
int postNumber = "31087513";
String image = 161216ecc79be79e68d8b50e2a782307.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)18:23:34';
String comment = 'Is it wrong this gave me the ick? I tried to tough my way through it but I couldn't help my feelings. It stood out everywhere we went and other girls were giving me looks like I was making a fool of myself.
No, he was not trying to be a gentleman. He likely thought that it would be ironic, and I felt disgusted and unsafe, especially when we were walking through the city.
It was not the impact that he thought that it would have, and I have no inclination to see him again. He kept texting me asking for an explanation, and I told him it was just because I was feeling sick.
I stopped myself from doing the you're a nice guy routine because it is so shattering for men's self-esteem, but I did tell him some girls would be into that.';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31092907";
String image = IMG_20240418_155126_458.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)16:20:02';
String comment = 'Are her tits real or fake?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31087130";
String image = sratd.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)17:02:16';
String comment = '>2000 word essay due in 4 days
how do I prepare for this?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31082880";
String image = 7e56afeefc5319c35e12bafe92ce0aac82015251.png;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)00:11:47';
String comment = 'I just want genuine love and affection.
I don't want sex, sex is disgusting and I hate it. I don't want to engage in weird modern transactional dating culture, that's also disgusting to me, I don't want to have to pretend to be someone I'm not just to be judged as "worthy."
I just want a girl who will be my best friend and also give me hugs and kisses, is this even possible?
the way people talk about and conceptualize "relationships" is so gross and alien to me that I don't find that sort of thing even worth considering.';
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String fullTitle = 'Vasectomy long-term side effects';
int postNumber = "31085713";
String image = 1713411833025i.gif;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)12:51:50';
String comment = 'Answer my questions and don't be a moralfaggot or go on about muh bloodline.
Are there underreported side effects of getting a vasectomy, aside from the 1% to 5% of pain? I've heard some reports that the reabsorption of the sperm in the body can make you more susceptible to diseases as you approach old age. Most of these seem to be terminal though, in which case I plan on going out via a bullet to the brain as I intend to remain a bachelor for the rest of my life. Or is it just mostly benign stuff that's readily discussed?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31092742";
String image = 1703065215578064.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)15:41:39';
String comment = 'What race am I? My ancestors were Italian, Greek, German, English and Scottish. I don't belong anywhere and these regions were always opposed to each other religiously and culturally. I've already been bullied off multiple sites for being pale yellow';
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String fullTitle = 'My co-worker left reddit open on his laptop and I saw posts of him talking about sex';
int postNumber = "31092774";
String image = 1712609238827242.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)15:51:07';
String comment = 'he's a programmer dork who I honestly thought was asexual, but clearly not. His gf is really cute too.
I swear I am the only virgin. Virgins only exist on the internet. They're not present in real life. They don't exist.
I see this as a declaration of war by women. All I ever wanted was to be loved. But here I am, a 23 year old virgin. What a fucking waste of life.
This is not okay. Someone has to pay for this.';
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String fullTitle = 'How to stop smelly poops/farts?';
int postNumber = "31091824";
String image = Irritable_bowel_syndrome.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)12:39:48';
String comment = 'I need some advice before trying the doctors.
I eat a clean diet, exercise, drink plenty of water, make sure I eat food with probiotics etc. but my poops and farts smell bad and linger for hours, especially the poops, not so much the farts.
As far as I can tell I have done everything I can to mitigate this issue, is there anything I can take that will stop the smell? Like some kind of tablet that will just make it smell like roses or don't stink at all at the very least?';
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String fullTitle = 'How do I cope with being a woman';
int postNumber = "31092712";
String image = u86976fyrdr.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)15:33:26';
String comment = 'and that I'll never achieve greatness as a man can? People think I'm sweet, gentle, feminine but reasonable. But all I ever wanted was to be strong physically and mentally (enough to stand my ground), explore the world or even the city jungle without fearing for dear life that someone might want to grab me or corner me
What is the equivalent female archetype of a hero, that isn't your nowadays insufferable girlboss?
>just poop our babies, cook, take care of the house and serve your husband';
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String fullTitle = 'Today I will remind you';
int postNumber = "31092880";
String image = 04P.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)16:15:18';
String comment = 'All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.
Boomers and gen-x are throwing money at young pussy like never before, we are talking boat trips, exotic trips, paying their rent and bills, buying them gifts, trips to beauty salons, etc. Many of them have net worths in the millions. Just look at all those modelling agencies and realize how many pretty girls are being baited to fuck the rich and upper class.
Then there are chad millennials and chad zoomers who get their first pick at all the young pussy.
Then at the end of the line there is you anon, the average nobody with no money, no charisma, no looks, no social circle, no experiences and no toys.
tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to';
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String fullTitle = 'Women, what do you think about virgins';
int postNumber = "31081599";
String image = 40-year-old-virgin-movie-poster.jpg;
String date = '04/17/24(Wed)17:51:21';
String comment = 'What do women really think about people who are over 30 that never had any sexual partners? Would you ever date such person?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31088525";
String image = 1508343184860.gif;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)21:58:15';
String comment = 'Should I stop being a pussy ? I just can't find the strength to be honest about my feelings with people especially when the topic is money. Like there is that friend who wants me to lend him some cash when he already owes me. If I were not a pussy I'd tell him straight that I'm not sure about his ability to give me back what he already owes me so I won't give him more, but I will just say "I can't, because I need money for [false reason]".
I'm always being dishonest because it will just make me lonelier than I already am. I guess a better question is "Did people ever benefit from being honest in relationships?"';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31092746";
String image = IMG_1677.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)15:42:17';
String comment = 'I feel fucking awful
In 2020, my grandparents and I had a holiday booked for Italy. My grandma was really looking forward to it and was always talking to me about it. I was also pretty excited since I was learning Italian at the time. Then Covid happened, the holiday was cancelled and we got refunded. Then in 2023 after lockdowns had ended, my grandma asked me if I wanted to come to Italy with them because they were booking another holiday but I declined. They told me they’d pay for everything and that I didn’t need to drop a dime. I still declined though. I don’t know what the fuck was going through my head. I feel so awful now. My grandparents just wanted to spend time with me before they pass and I declined their generous offer. Fuck man. I’m pathetic. Not a question or anything. Just wanted to vent because I have no friends irl';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31085330";
String image = 1713455195136535.png;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)11:51:48';
String comment = 'How do you play the game as the guy on the right';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31092852";
String image = 1707476344112863.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)16:09:10';
String comment = 'lets say that im a second year student in a country A's university,thus only one more year till I get the bachelor's, let's say I want to enter a country B's university in a similair field, can I directly enter the third year of said field in country B. or should I wait until I finish the degree here,THEN apply for a master's in country B, (for example ofc)';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31092267";
String image = GLeMOH3b0AAT0Yt.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)14:00:19';
String comment = 'You should kill yourself immediately
It wont get better
You lost all your once in life opportunities
It's too late for your age already
Give up';
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String fullTitle = 'Are women this retarded and unable to form relationships?';
int postNumber = "31092247";
String image = fems.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)13:55:43';
String comment = 'When I was in my late teens/early-to-mid 20s, it was much easier to find a gf than now that I'm in my 30s,
even though I am much higher value now than then, especially in terms of looks.
Sure, I only try online dating, but still, in comparison, it's so much worse today.
It's hard to get a woman to respond to me, if they will, the convo will get borind and dry very quickly (legit their fault).
If it goes well, they will still get bored even after some fun/romantic/sexual texting the next day and they'll ghost/respond once a day
and they'll be active on the OLD app we met on from now on.
If we actually meet, it's a 99% chance it won't go anywhere past one or two dates. Again they will become cold/dry/ghost afterwards.
I legit can't see any wrong in me. I'm 6/10, lean, 5'8.5", have some hobbies, can hold a conversation, make her laugh.
I'm so done with this shit. I literally can understand incels anger with women now, it's even worse when you think "Maybe this time it won't be the same".
I literally can't see how it's my fault, I KNOW I'm a good boyfriend material yet these bitches don't see it.';
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String fullTitle = 'how do i looksmax';
int postNumber = "31092824";
String image = msg986401219-13216.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)16:02:36';
String comment = 'undefined';
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String fullTitle = 'How to chat with girls at the gym without being a creep';
int postNumber = "31081508";
String image = IMG_7685.jpg;
String date = '04/17/24(Wed)17:20:34';
String comment = 'I know a lot of people say if I want to do this I have to chat with everyone, but no, I am not voluntarily taking with gym bros. That said, there are some girls who I see at the gym regularly who I notice only go alone (4/5ths of the women at the gym go with a man), so I assume they’re single, thus I could chat with them. A few problems though, 1, I don’t know how I’d start a conversation. I don’t know what we’d have in common besides being at the gym at the same time. 2, I work at the gym. I’ve been here long enough that most of the people doing the same thing as me have left since I started, it’s far from a lucrative position and I’m only doing it part time while in college. That is to say if for some reason I get in trouble for it, that won’t be the end of the world. Anyways how would you approach a girl at the gym if you were me?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31089538";
String image = signs-you-re-married-to-a-narcissist-5208165-Final-72a830b752e14980a84a6d91fc13aa9c.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)01:26:43';
String comment = 'Has anyone ever dealt with a Narcissist in their family or intimate life? Holy fuck, everything makes sense now.
I just found about this shit, and it fits my recent ex to a T. Lying, cheating, her phone being off when she's not with me, and then getting angry when you find out.
Have you guys ever gotten abused like this, then made to think you're crazy?';
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String fullTitle = 'Sliding Into DM's';
int postNumber = "31090500";
String image = 1000014781.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)06:10:29';
String comment = 'OK everyone knows Instagram has become the defacto best dating app but how do you actually find random young women in this app to slide into?';
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String fullTitle = 'Loving the rebound more than the original';
int postNumber = "31091088";
String image = ramona.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)09:07:46';
String comment = '>was in relationship for 4 years
>She broke up with me
>spent 10 months single
>meet someone on dating app, starts off as just hooking up, eventually develops into situationship for 6 months
>we make things official
>date for another 6 months
>she dumps me because she's avoidant as fuck and has issues
I feel grateful I met her because she helped me get out of a difficult period in my life, but now I fear going back to it. It's been a month and a half since the breakup and we've hooked up a few times since then but she made it clear on Monday she's not looking for a relationship so I went no contact. It's not hurting as bad as I thought but it's still painful. I just fear going back to how I was after my first breakup, I was actually suicidal back then. It doesn't hurt as much, probably because I have other things going on in my life right now, even though I feel I loved this girl way more and way more intensely and we were far more compatible and futureproof. Just a shame things couldn't work out.
I guess my question is how to get over a breakup as quickly as possible without relying on going on a rebound? By the time I met this girl I was still hung up on my ex, so I don't want to wait another 10 months and cure it by finding another girl.
Also my first ex has since reached out and wants to rekindle things but I've lost all romantic and sexual feelings for her. She keeps trying to hang out as friends but she has admitted she has romantic intentions. I love my last ex and can't even begin to fathom dating someone else, even if it's someone I've loved previously.';
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String fullTitle = 'ITS ALL SO SIMPLE!';
int postNumber = "31091690";
String image = 152254d6488ddb0ba76c3df2ac5c0631.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)12:08:43';
String comment = 'its so simple! it really is! all i have to do is take my daily walks, keep my body clean and maintained, sleep 7-9 hours consistently, keep my environment clean, stop slouching, challenge my irrational thoughts, laugh when i need to laugh, cry when i need to cry, and allow my emotions to come and go, and reach a small daily goal!!!!!!! its so easy its right there!! it's the key to a happy life! why can't i just do it?!??';
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String fullTitle = 'My moms new boyfriend is black…';
int postNumber = "31091123";
String image = IMG_5768.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)09:23:00';
String comment = 'Why the fuck would she do this to me?? How do I fight the urge to kill my self please help me';
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String fullTitle = 'Hard choices';
int postNumber = "31091857";
String image = 1293nfdsi02j.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)12:46:08';
String comment = 'My mom asked for money again this week. It's becoming a weekly thing with her. She's short on cash, she needs something to pay her bills. She asks me to lend money to her, and usually she pays it back in a few months time.
Still, I hate it. I don't want to lend her money. And she keeps pressuring me and telling me all this crap about family and how she raised me and now I owe her a favor. Every time. It's like I'm just expect to pay up whenever she's short changed.
I put my foot down yesterday and told her no. I strictly said that unless it's an actual emergency, I'm not lending her any money. I tried to explain to her that it's not sustainable and she needs to find another way of getting by besides knocking on my door every week. She gave me this big sigh, made me feel like I was basically telling her to crawl in a hole and die. She made me feel like I was being cruel, for not opening my wallet again.
I know what I did is right. But she makes me feel so bad about it. And now, anyone who knows her thinks I'm Scrooge McDuck. How do I get over this? This was a difficult decision, and even if I knew it was right, I still feel like shit about it. I want to stop feeling like I killed somebody. Why do I feel like this?';
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String fullTitle = 'GIOYC – Get It Off Your Chest';
int postNumber = "31091778";
String image = 1559604193309.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)12:31:57';
String comment = 'undefined';
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String fullTitle = 'dating without a car';
int postNumber = "31082788";
String image = 1_5946443.jpg;
String date = '04/17/24(Wed)23:24:36';
String comment = 'moving to a city from the middle of nowhere for uni in september. rent and tuition are going to be expensive so im thinking of selling my car/ cancelling my insurance when I leave to save some money. the city im moving to (Ottawa) has pretty good public transit and a public transit pass is included in the tuition.
obviously its not ideal for dating, but is it a deal breaker for most women for their date/bf to not have a car? something about taking the bus or ubering with a girl sounds pretty lame. would having my own place offset being a loser without a car? also should probably note i'm 24, not some 18 year old fresh out of highschool.';
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String fullTitle = '/htgwg/ How to Get Women General #215';
int postNumber = "31091261";
String image = 1710161921537845.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)10:04:10';
String comment = '>What is /htgwg/?
How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of those even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.
>What is /htgwg/ not?
These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard these days, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for men trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, who have given up, or who insist that there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can fuck off to.
BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!
>How to ask for advice
Context is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc...
Don't forget to ask an actual question.
>Books and Resources
"Models": https://ufile.io/f/jrw9j (expired?)
"No More Mr Niceguy": https://libgen.li/edition.php?id=14
"Mystery Method": https://pastebin.com/cMHcY4dc (old pastebin)
"The Pussy": https://z-lib.is/book/the-pussy-
Dr. NerdLove: https://www.doctornerdlove.com/cate
Leykis 101: https://pastebin.com/7U5Sdhwq (something to listen to)
(not all of these are fully vetted, new suggestions are welcome)
REMEMBER: It's good to read and prepare, but don't overdo it. Get off this site: go learn and build up your social skills by meeting actual women in the real world.
Previous: >>31077053'
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String fullTitle = 'Charcoal-burning suicide';
int postNumber = "31092112";
String image = dnbjdnjdsjsd.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)13:30:15';
String comment = 'is it a good idea to use it?
i'm a high school student(18 years old) i want to kill myself out of fear of failing this year ,i keep forgetting what i learned and i struggle mostly with biology , should i keep studying even with the possibility of being stupid?
i keep doubting my intelligence and i see no point of staying alive if i'm stupid
the only thing i accomplished this year is fixing my english and arabic handwriting picrel ,,i think i might be retarded because i take longer time to learn some stuff , how do i know if i'm retarded or not?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31091294";
String image = 11.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)10:11:54';
String comment = 'Armpits are the main stink generators, right? Is it fine to only wash your armpits when you're late somewhere? Did just that today.
I'm part asian, so I'm thinking my sweat glands should be smaller, so I shouldn't smell like shit.
Ngl I felt pretty sneaky and proud about that, maybe I can get away with it more often.
Did I just discover arcane knowledge? You can just wash your pits and ass and dick';
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String fullTitle = 'She brought her ex bf on our second date';
int postNumber = "31092502";
String image = 1711482010123662.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)14:41:30';
String comment = 'Im not even joking, she wanted me to meet him and hes apparently her best friend. His name is chase, hes black and he was with her for three years and has been with her through thick and thin apparently she said
Tf do i even say to her';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31092279";
String image = IMG_0096.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)14:02:03';
String comment = 'How do I go about actully learning music theory? I've played drums for a while but that only covers the rhythm portion. I picked up guitar and want to eventually make my own music, but I don't know much music theory. I don't want to just play power chords in e minor and noodle on the pentatonic scale.
Should I learn piano too? I'm interested in making my own music like Tame Impala does, and I'd probably want to add synths too, so piano would be useful. Obviously this is all long-term, I'm really only competent enough at drums and I don't have much in the way of recording equipment. I also don't have a good enough piano to learn.
The main thing is that I want to make more interesting harmonies and melodies but I really don't know where to start actually learning music theory. Sorry for the rambling, but where do I start? There's so much information out there.';
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String fullTitle = 'Choosing between engineering unis';
int postNumber = "31083369";
String image = University-of-Alabama-EngineeringResearchCenter-01.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)03:17:48';
String comment = 'I am from a shithole eastern european nation and I am at the age where I have to choose a uni. I like the prospects electrical engineering has in the future so I will go qualify for that.
I have 2 choices:
1. The uni in the capital of my nation (maybe has more international recognision)
2. The maritime uni in my town (gives me the posibility to work in the international shipping industry as an electrotechnical officer and on land as an electrical engineer however as it is not the capital international recognision may be limited)
Which should I choose?
Note: the fact that I have to move to the capital will not be an issue as I already dislike living in my town and the rents are almost equal';
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String fullTitle = 'Things will never get better';
int postNumber = "31090527";
String image = 1713436062830457.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)06:18:19';
String comment = 'Instead they will get worse and worse as life slowly passes us by';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31092006";
String image = doge.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)13:10:22';
String comment = '>dog has weird unexplained symptoms that vets can't explain
>Suddenly gets weird abscesses on his skin and we assume it's cancer
>Take to specialized vet
>CT scans shows:
>tumor in his mouth pushing up his eye
>tumor at his anal sack, making it hard to poop/pee
>weird swelling and wrapping around his left leg that is probably cancer too, vet does a biopsy
>weird bumps popping up all over his body
>will hear back on Tuesday
No direct confirmation it's cancer but it can't possibly be anything else. I love him so much and I don't want him to die, it pains me to see him in his current state, but I can't imagine Chemotherapy will do anything and I don't want to drag this out and make him suffer. He's 8 and has no other problems, I can't think to do anything but put him down. Is it even worth it, anybody know anything about this?';
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String fullTitle = '/pag/ - Porn Addiction General';
int postNumber = "31019481";
String image = goslingcoke012013_01-full.jpg;
String date = '04/06/24(Sat)15:49:46';
String comment = 'This is a thread for people who have and would like to recover from an unhealthy dependence on pornography, erotic imagery or any kind of sexual overindulgence. Share your advice, your struggles, your solutions, and discuss strategies to get better.
https://rentry.org/5737yc8h
Helpful links:
>Aggregate of hundreds of scientific research studies on porn
https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/res
>A few examples that have shown porn to have negative effects:
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/372
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/246
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/260
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/266
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/248
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/275
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/284
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/246
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/282
>How porn addiction works (3:06)
https://youtu.be/1Ya67aLaaCc
>Practical effects of porn usage on the brain (4:25)
https://youtu.be/9qJHRvHU8IM
Your brain on porn, summarized (17:21)
https://youtu.be/jAgUGBVjWXs
>How to start quitting porn (10:30)
https://youtu.be/eoVkQDDNa0g
Methods of quitting:
>AVRT:
https://imgur.com/a/lJ4m3dC
>Tech lockdown:
https://www.youtube.com/@techlockdo
>Porn blockers:
https://blockerx.net/
https://accountable2you.com/
https://www.pluckeye.net/
https://www.covenanteyes.com/
>I don't have a problem and I don't want to quit.
Then this thread is not for you. It is for people who recognize they have an issue and would like to get better.
>I don't want to tell other people about this.
That's your choice, but accountability is hugely helpful to any recovering addict; harmful behavior thrives in secrecy.
>I just need a girlfriend, how do I get one?
There are dozens of other threads on /adv/ for that, you can "tfw no gf" elsewhere
Previous thread: >>30967169
Please help keep bumped if you'd like this thread to stay up!'
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String fullTitle = 'i'm 19 and going nowhere';
int postNumber = "31092094";
String image = folder.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)13:26:29';
String comment = '>shitty college degree that i don't care about and i'm not studying
>no friends
>no partner
>not mature enough
>nothing going for me
>stupid asocial idiot that doesn't know how to talk to people or participate in society
>shut-in
>probably gonna fail my semester
i'm tired and depressed dude
i just wanna live and go have sex ngl
i don't care about anything else and that's terrible
i will spend hours at home daily doing nothing
commute to college is long and stressful
college is boring
i know working would be more stressful, tedious and boring too though
i should just become a wageslave or some shit
i just wanna be loved and have sex
but that isn't in the cards for me
oh btw i'm a tranny, you can type "41% kys" now
>why do you do it
i like men and i have a micropenis + i'm like not that tall so i was never gonna pull bitches anyways
i just wanna be fucked and have a relationship with someone once in my life then i can die happy or sum';
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String fullTitle = 'Spin the bottle game for sluts';
int postNumber = "31090675";
String image = tuborg.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)06:57:21';
String comment = 'Long story short. I started hanging with a girl I liked, trying to understand if we can be together.
One day she invites me to a party at her friend's home. We start drinking beer, like any other party, then her friend says "let's play spin the bottle game".
Basically people sit in circe on the floor and spin an empty bottle. Two people pointed by the bottle kiss randomly. Or even something more, depend how much they are perverted. My girl patricipated too.
I didn't. I was just looking at them, thinking WTF? Because it was obvious that her friends were all faggots and sluts.
It was the last time I saw her, because was not interested dating an obvious slut. Also this perverted game happened just once in my life.
I had to Google this game to see if it's well known.
Did you have this experience? Was this fucked up game popular among people you know?
Would you date a slut like her who kisses random people for the hell of it?
My advice is to avoid sluts like this, because it will obviously end up in cheating and divorce.';
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String fullTitle = 'What race should I identify as?';
int postNumber = "31092628";
String image = mixed.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)15:08:36';
String comment = 'Father is of jewish and berber heritage. Mother is of southeastasian (filipino) and european (basque) and italian heritage.
My skin color is peach, my nose is moderately delicate and pronounced. My eyes are brown. My eyebrows are full, cheekbones small, hair dark brown and wavy, and chin pronounced. My eyes are large with evident sceleras.
Alone, people identify me as indian, but next to an indian, I don't look indian, and people don't identify me as such.
If my closest passing is of indian descent, then I should identify with that, no? but I have no connection to India, how would I identify with them?
I can't identify with being moroccoan or filipino either because I don't pass for either. I live in the philippines.';
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String fullTitle = 'Why are women like this?';
int postNumber = "31069249";
String image = pep.png;
String date = '04/15/24(Mon)15:29:13';
String comment = '>go to club
>see girl eyeing me
>approach her
>we dance and drink and end up going back to her hotel room
>we get into bed
>she tells me I can take my clothes off (in a non-sexual way imo)
>I do
>we cuddle and go to sleep
>she ghosts me the next day
Was the sex supposed to happen then? I didn’t get any indicators she wanted to fuck. We didn’t even kiss much. we made out for a bit at the club but she pulled away after a few seconds each time.
We were both drunk and very tired when we got to her hotel. It didn’t seem like she wanted to fuck.
I wanted to meet her then next day and have sex then but like I said she ghosted.';
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int postNumber = "31092626";
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String date = '04/19/24(Fri)15:08:32';
String comment = 'I'm 30 and recently I've developed this problem where I can't sleep through the night, and when it's time for bed I get really anxious
I usually wake up at around 2 am, wide awake
I don't fully remember my dreams but they are quite hellish, and I wake up with my heart beating fast and body warm. I go drink some water and go back to bed as I let my nerves calm down.
What could be the cause of this? My guess that is just plain anxiety';
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String fullTitle = 'How do I not fk this up? Tips to win a guy over?';
int postNumber = "31092445";
String image = couple pic.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)14:30:50';
String comment = 'So there's this epic person I met that's my ideal guy in every way lol (am biofem if it matters) <.<
We've been talking nearly uninterrupted for the past 7 hours or so.
We're both same age, college v*rgins and he's never dated anyone before. He's nerdy and smart, totally my type, his parents own a farm and he's studying to be an engineer. We both have similar taste in anime and games, and he said he's gonna download one of my fav games so we can play together.
I asked him if he'd be my bf if he still likes me after videochat and he said yes.
Videochat's on Monday guys, help me not to screw this up. What do I say? What do I do? I'll never get a perfect chance like this again plz give tips.';
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int postNumber = "31092488";
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String date = '04/19/24(Fri)14:37:44';
String comment = 'What do I do if I’m hikkikomori. It’s very hard to recover
>parents live in a small village
>my neighbors are ass holes get in constant fights with them
>everywhere I go I risk seeing people from high school
>parents are poorfags will never leave
>people most
>if I go out I risk having people see me and talk about me and start rumors
>autistic loser looked like a retard my whole life
>hate pretty much everyone
I feel like I could start healing and recovering if I could get away and not feel like a celebrity when I leave the house but I just can’t have that. I sometimes ride my bike or walk to isolated areas but I’m always paranoid.
No one seems to ever leave this place or move so it’s always the same shit everywhere.. stopped using my yard because of all the ass hole neighbors and noise. I’m trying to sober up but I’m surrounded by constant noise, stress, isolation, and alienation. Not to mention everywhere just gives me sad memories.. my house, my town, everything. My retarded neighbors destroy all the peace with animals, loud trucks, and ATVs.
I just wish my parents would leave this god forsaken hell';
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int postNumber = "31090262";
String image = 806139A9-5F02-4DA7-886D-EF25E8D539BE.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)04:56:41';
String comment = 'Is there any way for me to find love as an autistic man or is it over for me? (Actual diagnosed autism)';
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String fullTitle = 'Therapy is for women';
int postNumber = "31089724";
String image = 1540665482806.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)02:09:38';
String comment = 'therapy services in their current state are not able to adequately help men most of the time. There is quite literally a gendered language barrier, you can read all the articles to try to prepare all you want but it's only gonna do you so much good. most therapists are women, who has spent the vast majority of her school surrounded by women, most of her training hours were spent largely observing the ways women speak to other women in these contexts. most of her clients, coworkers, classmates etc are all women. This is not a bad thing at face value but it lends this already tough thing to be even more confusing. It's easy for them to do their job when most of those who they treat are women. They aren't the best at navigating gendered problems. They are very good at "being there for you" but I, and most men, tend to be solution based. Top it all off with the fact that men are shamed out of expression so we aren't that equipped. Seriously, i'm glad I went and I would still suggest men at least consider giving it a shot but half the time i just felt like the therapists just sit there, smile and nod. Really frustrating when people sling around "just go to therapy lmao, men will do anything but go to therapy" not to mention it's expensive as fuck often with no results for a long period of time. You could seriously spend months making no progress because she "just wants to build this relationship in this space and really hear and understand you". Yeah, that's great, but can you actually help me? It feels like therapy is just where lonely older women go to talk about their week.';
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String fullTitle = 'Trouble setting my foot in adult life';
int postNumber = "31091862";
String image = 1712499878360447.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)12:47:30';
String comment = 'Tail-end of senior year(18yo) here.
I spent entirety of hs lazying around and avoiding social interactions so i have
>No friends
>No gf
>No skills
>No prospects
>No social abilities
I need to get a job going soon since i'm too stupid to waste my time at college.
The issue being that i live in a small city and am unemployable as fuck.
Literally no skills or abilities or any reason why anyone would hire me for anything.
I want to find anything that paysoney, save up and move out.
I will kill myself if i'll have to live with mommy and daddy in the years to come still..
What would you advise?
Getting poon isn't an immediate need so i didn't mention it but im also an ugly as fuck chudcel so there's that';
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String fullTitle = 'Parents';
int postNumber = "31092457";
String image = IMG_0001.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)14:32:23';
String comment = 'I outright hate my parents for bringing me into this hopeless world and I want revenge on them. What’s the best way to do this? Nothing illegal please.';
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String fullTitle = 'Should I cut my hair?';
int postNumber = "31088725";
String image = jace-man-bun-suit.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)22:48:45';
String comment = 'can man-buns look professional?';
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String fullTitle = 'How do i study effectively?';
int postNumber = "31092544";
String image = 496-4964447_apu-pepe-png-download-pepe-thinking-png-transparent.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)14:51:24';
String comment = 'I'm trying to impress a girl who i have been crushing on by getting good grades. i didn't care about studies until now and am below average in studies. i need you're tips and tricks on how to study more effectively as I'm also ready to work hard now. don't recommend me yt videos, they just don't work for me. help me bag this girl smort pepol!!1!';
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String fullTitle = 'how the fuck do I become fancy';
int postNumber = "31092497";
String image = 99B77995-B954-42A1-B430-933E52A78B5A.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)14:39:56';
String comment = 'I apparently do not have Sophisticated taste. At my job I’m surrounded by posh “I have had silver spoon up my ass since the day I was born” type of people. They regularly talk about the type of media they consume and what they do. Wether that might be reading classic books, going to operas, watching old black & white drama movies, playing polocrosse (it’s like golf but you ride a horse while doing it, I know it sounds retarded) and such things so when they ask me about my taste i seem childish in comparison. It seems to me my tastes in stuff I enjoy haven’t changed a bit since I was a teen, I still enjoy reading comics, watching cartoons, listening to hip hop and weightlifting. Is there some kind of book or guide I can follow so I can become fancy enough to not stick out like a sore thumb?';
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String fullTitle = 'Wash white tshirts at 40 or 60?';
int postNumber = "31091010";
String image = 1713528787811106[1].jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)08:44:30';
String comment = 'Years ago I used to wash on lower temps, 40 (for a while even 30).
My tshirts developed this stale smell I couldnt later get out no matter what. It got worse and worse. Once dry, and the scent of the detergent wore off, the stale smell was just there. None of the other clothes had it, not socks, not underwear, not any trousers. Just the tshirts. Probably because torso sweat is different, worse?
I threw them out and got an entirely fresh batch. This time I washed them at 60 always. Problem is, they started breaking down after just a couple of years, they all started developing holes in them. Eventually they looked like swiss cheese. Machine same, detergent same, so I had to conclude that the tshirts just didnt hold up well to the higher temps. The stale smell also eventually developed, although more perhaps slowly.
Anyway, I just got an entirely new batch of tshirts, all white.
I just dont know whether to do 40 or 60 with this batch. Help.';
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String fullTitle = 'tired of being a weak cowardly pussy';
int postNumber = "31089034";
String image = homelander.png;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)23:58:21';
String comment = 'I just hate it so much , but not only am I short - I am also skinny fat build , small wrists and wide hips - im basically a woman in many ways.
I hate always having to take shit from my bosses cause im too poor to quit.
I hate some guy mocking me and me being unable to escalate cause I'll get curbstomped if I do.
The worst part is - I feel like some of my near ancestors were absolute killers , both my grandpas pretty much lived on the dark side. Jesus , what is the point of turning the other cheek if you don't have any other option?
Give me the list anons , give me the list of shit a short guy like me could do to turn it all around even if it changes the trajectory of my life. We all gonna be eating each other in the climate wars anyway - whats the damn point.
Do I even pretend to larp as a man at my size...
Or just cope and cozy into academia or some other hidey-hole and live a cowards life...
The only way I ever get respected is if I "evilmaxx" / play fast and loose with morality and if I do that , I lose on the afterlife - damned if I do , damned if I don't
God fucking dammit';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31089880";
String image = extra_small-1378269411.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)02:50:04';
String comment = 'How do I go about finding a girl that I hit? Like, I don't want to seriously injure or hurt her. I just want to slap her around, choke her and be rough.
I've had some girls that were ok and even liked it. But I want to find one easier and not have to test the waters so much.';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31092440";
String image = IMG_9298.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)14:29:49';
String comment = 'How can I stop being such a coombrain? I think of degrading my girlfriend and jerk off to fantasies of treating her like trash, cumming on her face, pulling her hair etc. but she hates guys like that and mindsets like that.';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31092345";
String image = 233.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)14:12:13';
String comment = 'how to stop being affraid of sex and intimacy?';
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String fullTitle = 'Social beef between proles and office men?';
int postNumber = "31092425";
String image = looksmaxxed hitler.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)14:26:57';
String comment = 'Is there really a divide between blue collar and white collar men? Or only for those devoted to politics?
Im a young man, I never paid attention to this before but until recently. I used to think all men got along well or bad depending on personal basis BUT; is there really a divide, among male workers, between blue and white collar? Like, white c. think blue are dumb or brutish and blue c. thinks the white are lazy or doing useless office jobs, etc?
I most probably think no one in Real life gives a fu*k about what your social\job class is among guys, but with so many internet stuff i've been seeing I do wonder.';
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int postNumber = "31092448";
String image = bd83b3e9bee07465e4059d014bb46e6e72a2834e_hq.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)14:31:37';
String comment = 'I need sloppy toppy and I need it now... how do I acquire it?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31092437";
String image = 10380105_796218950408563_3826860532410627839_o.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)14:29:09';
String comment = 'Just found out that my family used to be filthy fucking rich (like top 5% in my country) and then they lost it all due to doing businesses with the wrong kind of people when I turned 6.
Now we're barely scraping by. How do I cope with the fact that I could've been the chaddest of all chads fucking 10/10 models everyday but shit happened?';
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String fullTitle = 'where do i go to get spitroasted';
int postNumber = "31089295";
String image = IMG_8404.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)00:42:24';
String comment = 'dating apps? i’m not a normie i don’t know what normies do when they’re horny? not a troll question i’m legitimately curious';
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String fullTitle = 'What is this feeling?';
int postNumber = "31091904";
String image = _40b83c4f121a48b38fed167ce5dd4804.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)12:54:25';
String comment = 'Don't feel like working, don't feel like going out, don't feel like meeting or even talking to friends, don't feel like socializing, don't feel like going out, don't feel like doing anything.
And it's not like I'm depressed, it's not a feeling of apathy towards everything, I actually feel really good by doing things inside my room like reading and watching films, I just don't feel like leaving it.
It's the first time I feel like that in my life and I indulged myself on this for the last two months but by now it's getting weird, I need to find a job but don't feel like it. I've worked before and actually liked what I did but now idk everything seems like a huge hastle';
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String fullTitle = 'Work-Slaves';
int postNumber = "31091438";
String image = GhostType.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)10:58:23';
String comment = 'So I am born and then the system just decides to make me a worker drone? How fucked up is that? How can I escape this ratrace? This pre-determined fate?
And no, I'm not lazy nor unambitious. I got straight A's all the time and am one of the best workers at my firm.
I'm just realizing this, and therefore asking.
Glowies, stay out, no Glowies allowed in this thread, no derailing allowed either.
Thanks';
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String fullTitle = 'Psoriasis is really bumming me out';
int postNumber = "31087627";
String image = IMG_8917.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)18:53:02';
String comment = 'No matter what I do I can’t get rid of it. I have a plaque scale on my face currently that’s been persistent for a month. it’s messing with my confidence big time. I don’t want to leave the apartment. What do I do about this shit. I’ve tried:
>prescription topical steroid
>hydrocortisone
>nizoril
>anti fungal cream
>aquaphor
>sunlight
The prescription topical worked on other parts of my body, but it doesn’t seem to be doing anything on the face. Also I don’t want to be using that shit because of the withdraws, side effects, etc.';
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int postNumber = "31091974";
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String date = '04/19/24(Fri)13:06:12';
String comment = 'Anyone in stem major feels like
an absolute retard.
Proffesor tells with just their eyes to quit this field and kill myself.
I want to continue cause it has my dream country student exchange but idk how long can I manage
My colleagues are loud and hate me, do I kill myself
Should I ask for retard student help
Do I kill myself once and for all';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31092109";
String image = 1710926191632407.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)13:29:38';
String comment = 'Are post office jobs any good?';
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String fullTitle = 'Between a rock and a hard place - what to do?';
int postNumber = "31091339";
String image = samantha aaaaa.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)10:27:54';
String comment = 'I think I'm stuck between familiarity and taking a chance.
My girlfriend has cheated on me many times. She banged her ex and said it was my fault, banged 2 other dudes from her trailer trash friend group and said it was my fault, sold nudes to some "just friends" for money, probably more. I've cheated on her in retaliation a few times too but I've always felt so fucking dirty doing it...until now.
I met a girl who's great. Super pretty, dedicated to her goals, sweet, caring, you name it. She's honestly paid attention to me more than my gf has in the time that I've spent with her. We went out last night and she even bought me drinks and shared her own food with me. Meanwhile, my gf was complaining that I hadn't taken her out in a while as I was beyond broke from some emergency expenses and waiting to get my first paycheck from a new job (I got it yesterday). This new girl made me feel SO special and cared for.
I think I want to break up with my gf for this new girl. It seems to be a no-brainer. But, I feel bad for some reason just dumping my gf. I've stuck around for 1.5 years (only 9 months of it were good) giving her chance after chance after chance, but she just keeps lying and being scummy. I really want this new girl and she really wants me. It just feels good to be wanted for the right reasons. I feel special for the first time in a long time.
Am I just being retarded rn, anons? I'm so confused.';
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String fullTitle = 'Medical bill advice for a poorfag with no insurance';
int postNumber = "31089200";
String image = 1694975067075889m.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)00:26:06';
String comment = 'My credit is already pretty fucked up so I'm thinking about allowing the bill to go to collections in hopes of negotiating for a lower amount? Has anyone heard of this or done it themselves?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31087557";
String image = GJ9XMReWsAAkOMq.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)18:34:32';
String comment = '25M Should I go back to school for accounting or a business degree?
So I graduated Spring 21 with a BA in English. Ever since then I just worked a retail job and now I currently work p/t as a receptionist at a florist for 1.5 years. I've been looking for almost a year for another job with no luck. Fixed up my resume a bunch of times and everything, I feel like I have gotten a little bit better at interviews, and I'm still going nowhere. I feel like there's just nothing here for me. I had gotten to a third round interview for a job I actually would have liked and 5 mins before the interview the fire alarm goes off and my interview gets cancelled. I tried to reach back to them and at that point they weren't considering me anymore and I got a rejection shortly after. Today I was supposed to have a virtual interview and my interviewer was a no show. It's been a year and I think I just have to do something different at this point. Should I go back to school? I thought maybe accounting since that seems like a safe path. I remember taking some accounting classes before and thought they were alright. Is going back to school a good idea?';
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String fullTitle = 'Am I unironically paranoid?';
int postNumber = "31090433";
String image = IMG_5559.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)05:47:19';
String comment = 'I hate to self diagnose and I hate people who self diagnose. I missed my psychiatrist appointment but I honestly just need to talk to a schizophrenic retard..
I’m scared of everything. I get too scared to go outside. I’m scared of being stabbed or shot. In my head every stranger who says a friendly hello to me has a gun and is going to pull it out and blow my head off so I just don’t respond or walk faster. I had a falling out with this friend group awhile back, and I keep thinking that everyone who friend requests me on discord even if it’s the opposite gender is one of the bad people going to farm me for info and post me online. I don’t know what’s going on. I also keep hearing my name being called when I have headphones in, and becoming so hyperfixated on things that I can see them on the walls, not that clearly but they’re there. I keep having weird dreams about dismembering people and it makes me really anxious and scared. I don’t know what’s going on so that’s why I need a schizo retard to tell me if I’m genuinely paranoid or what';
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int postNumber = "31086662";
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String date = '04/18/24(Thu)15:34:15';
String comment = 'Hey guys
How do you get over anxiety?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31091697";
String image = 1713464604318134.webm;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)12:11:20';
String comment = 'How do I get rid of this limiting belief that I'll never have a white gf because I'm white?
I know it sounds absurd, but this site + IR porn have completely rotten my brain and now everytime I see a white girl I already assume she is only interested in black/brown dudes and sees me as pathetic.
The fact that I live in a white-minority country where racemixing is not a taboo also doesn't help, since most white women I know irl (very few and far between) ARE in interracial relationships, mostly because the probability of finding a white man is low.';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31090801";
String image = 1688572069376583.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)07:40:07';
String comment = 'how do you text a girl?';
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String fullTitle = 'Should i end my life?';
int postNumber = "31089017";
String image = imagem_2024-04-19_005439302.png;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)23:55:00';
String comment = 'I mean, i've never aprecciated life, I'm 20 and I've been seeing a psychiatrist for 8 years now. My family hates me because I'm a waste due to my mental problems, I have chronic depression and I've had cases of psychosis, I don't stay at any job for more than a week.
I tried to get some bitches but that didn't fill the void I feel.
I think I'm immortal because I took 40 lithium pills and 3 months later I'm still here, but I have a razor in my hands right now, you have 30 minutes to change my mind.';
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String fullTitle = 'How to make the relationship more entertaining?';
int postNumber = "31090849";
String image = 16158-shrek-forever-after_1280x720.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)07:59:23';
String comment = '>on Tuesday I tell my gf where we can go (restaurant, gym, museums, bowling, cinema, woods)
>we go out together every Wednesday cause we both have a day off on Wednesday
>we meet at early afternoon and go where I wanted to
>we go to her dorm, watch a movie, cuddle erotically (she doesn't want sex yet) and sometimes read a story I wrote
>at late afternoon or early evening I go home
Personally I really like this routine and like routines in general but idk about her. Should I do sonething to be more entertaining? I don't wanna invite her to my flat cause it's a hellhole that needs renovation';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31078926";
String image = 1709517134864359.jpg;
String date = '04/17/24(Wed)05:48:09';
String comment = 'I cannot stop masturbating to AI chat it's despite it not feeling as good anymore. I feel like it is ruining how productive I am in my off days and causing me to loose dopamine for everyday activities. I want to stop using them for either a week or for a longer period of time then that, how do I do it? I've only gone one day without them and it's hard to keep up since I mostly use them to cope.';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31092065";
String image = pobrane (5).jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)13:19:00';
String comment = 'I missed some of my labs cause I was scared of the doctor bitch from my uni
Do I kill myself
Should I write an email and ask if I have to attend them and say outright that I'm retarded (autistic)
I don't wanna drop out but like I'm retarded, can retarded be an excuse
She already hates me and tells me to quit this field and kill myself just with her eyes';
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String fullTitle = 'Pothead neighbors';
int postNumber = "31089325";
String image = 1700690348373469.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)00:46:44';
String comment = 'I'm going to have (government) drug tests if I end up getting a certain job. Two potheads living in the apartment beneath mine are constantly smoking, to the point where the stench of loser blows into my unit if I turn on my heater or AC.
Am I going to piss hot? How much THC can I expect to absorb from these shitstains?';
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String fullTitle = 'Is it normal and ok to be virgin?';
int postNumber = "31091754";
String image = asje1218vgja.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)12:26:17';
String comment = 'I was raised religiously and have abstained from sex for le hellfire and brimstone reasons. I am 23 and have had girlfriends in Uni and I have only gotten head and made out. Never took it to the next level because of religious reasons.
I hear being a virgin is a red flag and women do not like that.
Is this ok or will this affect my relationships in the future for abstaining?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31088337";
String image = IMG_4327.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)21:14:50';
String comment = '>trying to court this girl for years
>has never gotten mad at my advances
>was giggly when I flirted while she had a boyfriend
>left a while ago
>still talk
>even started sending nudes
>fast forward to today
>supposed to be coming back in the near future.
Not sure if this will be the "green light" or if she'll still be wanting to just be friends.';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31089022";
String image = Screenshot 2024-04-16 at 10.57.40 PM.png;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)23:56:27';
String comment = 'How do I stop eating so much? It's a psychological compulsion at this point';
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String fullTitle = 'Fat fetish';
int postNumber = "31083101";
String image = 1688893136324008.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)01:35:41';
String comment = 'I'm really into fat girls. My girlfriend was fat when I met her and I got her skinny cause I don't want an unhealthy girl. But I'm really into fat girls. What do guys in my situation do? I'm just jerking off to fat girls mostly.';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31085692";
String image = unnamed.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)12:49:06';
String comment = 'How do you know if a girl in public want you to approach her/talk to her? Do women even want to be approached nowadays?';
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String fullTitle = 'How can I find genuine friends';
int postNumber = "31082351";
String image = IMG_2997.jpg;
String date = '04/17/24(Wed)20:59:16';
String comment = 'I’m a femanon and I go college but I don’t interact with anyone there. Not due to bad anxiety. I just really want one friend I could have a conversation with or laugh with. There’s people in my class but they know I’m behind on work so they just avoid me and I know I won’t fit in with none of them. It feels like I’m doomed to be stuck alone forever. I haven’t had an actual friend for 3 years. Well I have a friend but she only talks about her and her toxic boyfriend. So it gets boring talking to her. I use social apps but it’s hard to find female friends since they always leave me opened. I’m not sure what else I can do either just focus on my “future” idk. Most of my teens I rotted every single summer in bed scrolling on 4chan, tik tok, etc watching or stalking other people from my old school have fun. While I just resent myself for not being able to fit in.';
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String fullTitle = 'Is it cringe to go on holiday with my mother at 23?';
int postNumber = "31085807";
String image = IMG_5767.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)13:04:50';
String comment = 'My mother and brother (17) are going on holiday to a resort in egypt in the summer and she asked me if i wanna come. 23 is probably too old now isn’t it';
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String fullTitle = 'Journalist';
int postNumber = "31091587";
String image = Png.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)11:35:54';
String comment = 'I want to start journalism but don’t know where to start. Advice please?';
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String fullTitle = 'Remeberigh about something that happened to me more than 20 years ago.';
int postNumber = "31091833";
String image = Wave8c_-_Heavy-Duty-Wave-Slide-Blue__97992.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)12:41:25';
String comment = '>be me
>5-6 years old
>in 1st grade
>free time is on fridays, so we get to fuck around for a whole hour
>playground had that pea gravel
>being a little kid so im runnin around like a dumbass
>fucker in my class named kellen (i think)
>sees me running on the playground
>takes his knee-high sock and fills it with pea gravel
>swings it around like a fucking mace
>winds up and hits me right in my solar plexus
>knocks the wind out of me
>on the ground gasping
>he dumps the sock full of gravel down my throat and nose so i cant breathe
>ohshit
>choking on rocks
>tunnel vision because i cant breathe
>on the verge of death from what it felt like
>realize i can just swallow it
>desnt work and makes me gag so hard i vomit out all the gravel
>kid still there laughing his ass off
>ffw 2 weeks
>hes at the top of the long spiral slide
>i push him down the slide
>thunkthunkthunkthunkthunk
>go to the bottom of the slide to see the damage
>he broke his fucking ankle and arm
>lol
>walk away and get away with it
was i in the right? i didn't mean to injure him that severely, but i didnt really care that he did.';
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String fullTitle = 'Please help me anons';
int postNumber = "31086478";
String image = 1696368143916.png;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)15:05:58';
String comment = 'I'm a 20 year old woman.
And I don't have anything in my life.
I have zero energy and motivation to do anything in my life.
I don't any have friends. I never went to party or anything like that.
My social life literally doesn't exist.
I don't have a job. Fuck I don't even go to university and I probably wouldn't be able to get into one.
And obviously I don't have a car.
I still live with my parents.
Rot in bed all day on 4chan and anime. I never do anything productive.
I'm basically a giga NEET.
This has been my life for last two years. I didn't left my house in last 6 months. My parents aren't happy about this.
I feel like a failure. Like I already failed in life.
And I have need to change but then I remember I live in shithole where is hard to get a job and I have zero money to do anything in my life (+ other issues). And after this, I lost my energy and just went back to rot..
Seeing girls I went to high school, already winning in life, having cars, friends, going to university makes me so fucking mad. Fucking whores.
Maybe it would be better if I didn't live in shithole, with poor parents.
Holy shit what should I do.
Maybe I should just kill myself. I'm so out of luck';
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String fullTitle = 'where to find an asian gf';
int postNumber = "31087651";
String image = download.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)18:58:32';
String comment = 'where are they?
I live in a big (for the midwest) city. Should I camp at Asian markets or restaurants?';
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String fullTitle = 'Rent increase';
int postNumber = "31089792";
String image = a.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)02:27:32';
String comment = 'Place I'm living is offering me to re-sign but with $50 increased rent.
It would go from $1,525 to $1,575
Is this alright or should I tell them if they increase it I'm not re-signing?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31088267";
String image = IMG_1271.png;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)21:01:48';
String comment = 'Realistically it’s over. I am 5’6 and 5/10 face, I have never dated or had sex and I am 21 years old. I have never really had a woman show interest in me before, even after losing weight and lifting. Subsequently, I will never be able to have friends/be respected by peers because I am a low value male incel and le personality is irrelevant. Doesn’t matter anyways because I am a shell of a human being. I live in a dead 10k population shithole filled with middle aged walking zombies whose only function is to fund the local bars and molest walled roasties. Even though I’m studying for a decent degree I wouldn’t even be able to get a good job because there are none. So basically, I will die alone friendless in a dead town after wageslaving for 70 years.';
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String fullTitle = 'Should I move to Las Vegas';
int postNumber = "31089892";
String image = main-qimg-7b65de2ec64d0985a1e74424cfce48ba-lq.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)02:53:45';
String comment = 'It's still relatively inexpensive compared to other big cities in the country and 90% of the days of the year are sunny.';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31088191";
String image = DujWR8XXcAEFoiM.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)20:45:18';
String comment = 'Hey /adv/, shot in the dark, but you have always been helpful in those times.
I (30M) just started dating a girl (23) who is really cute and awesome. She is pretty much a goth but she is also really sweet and loving. She texts me good morning every morning, for example. We've been together for about two months.
I am lucky enough to have not had any real serious trauma such as sexual abuse, loss of family, etc. She on the other hand has had abusive ex-boyfriends and her dad also abandoned her at around 10 years old. I'm just adding this for context.
Last night, we were hanging out. We're both homebodies, so usually I cook a nice meal and we watch funny TV shows. I'm very physical, as in I enjoy cuddling/kissing even if it doesn't lead to sex. I should add that we have slept together and are usually very physical even when we're just watching shows, like kissing a lot and cuddling etc. She was just really physically distant last night, like I would put my arm around her and she just felt very wooden. I asked her if everything was OK. She always just says "yeah I'm fine" and doesn't really expand on it. I very warmly said basically, "hey, you know, we gotta be able to talk to each other, so please tell me how you feel" etc. because I legitimately care about her and want her to be happy. She said she appreciated me but really didn't expand much more on her feelings/why she was being so physically distant.
A few hours passed and I went to kiss her, like wanting to make out, and again she just really wasn't feeling it. I'm definitely the type to overthink things, so it did kind of bother me, but I just played it off. After she went home I felt pretty upset about it. Today we're totally fine of course texting and such, but now here I am sitting here thinking about it.
I'm just worried because I just turned 30 and am really looking for the one (tm). I've dated a girl before with serious psychological issues. This girl isn't near that level, but idk. Thoughts?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31082793";
String image = images (2).jpg;
String date = '04/17/24(Wed)23:29:30';
String comment = 'How do I socialize or is it just too late?
I'm a 35 year old virgin and my only hobby for the past 15 years is masturbating to weird porn and now I'm a total personality void.';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31088443";
String image = polar-bear-01-01.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)21:34:11';
String comment = 'My friend has been dating a girl for 1 year now and bought her a promise ring. He is redpilled on women/dating and this is his first serious gf. We wanted to buy real estate together and now he wants to involve this first time gf. Should I still be fully on board with this, is he turning into a simp for pussy? Is this my fate as well? Do women change you that much?';
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String fullTitle = 'Touch Starvation';
int postNumber = "31089921";
String image = IMG_4548.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)03:04:45';
String comment = 'I know that I need and enjoy physical touch with someone close, hugging and cuddling. I can't stand it all the time and don't like touch in public (pda) and so now I am in sort of a thing with a guy where I can get that touch and he can get relief but I don't want to actually have sex. I already stated I don't want a relationship nor hookups and the latter is something I never do anyway, but the avoidance of piv sex is a decision I made both for my mental and spiritual health, and my physical health (the vagina itself)
I know people have all kinds of arrangements that work for them but how long do you think a guy would be satisfied with this because I want to set my expectations low.
I don't want a boyfriend
I don't want to have sex
I do enjoy other sexual activities and physical touch';
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String fullTitle = 'Am I wrong?';
int postNumber = "31089379";
String image = 76oas3.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)00:53:27';
String comment = '>Be 15
>Wait for bus to stop and start walking towards bus
>Get hit by car and get knocked out for 5 minutes
>Get up look around and run towards the bus and get help
>Medics come I got to hospital
>blood everywhere my right eye is covered
> get stitched Cant feel leg cant move leg think im paralyzed
>Not paralyzed just a broken let
>Go through physical therapy 4 times (other 3 were because of the lawsuit saying i did more money!)
>UP TO SPEED
>17 Nearing the end of my lawsuit suing 2 things
>Bus and Cars insruace
>Literally About to be rich
Here is where I need Advice
I am getting a lump some of money and my mom thinks shes entitiled to have ALOT
My mom thinks That if i got 6,000,000 She think she should get 1,000,000
She is a Smoker,Works 5-10 Barely makes enough to support her lifestyle and such.
She is bipolar and really emotionally and physically guilty
I have evidence so i can place a restraining order against here once everything is settled and i want to move on with my life
How can I make it so she walks away with the least amount of money i can give to her and never deal with her again
Sorry for the long read';
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String fullTitle = 'Dating FOMO? I'm an idiot';
int postNumber = "31091463";
String image = hold_the_fuck_up.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)11:05:53';
String comment = 'I live in NYC (born and raised). I'm 24F, have a good tech job, and I've been dating my boyfriend (29M) for a sum of three years-- two years on, one year off, and now it's been a year. It's comfortable, but I occasionally get the craving to go out and resample the dating market-- I mean, that feeling is what got me to dump him for a year. It's purely because of FOMO, I think. What if I can Do Better? I do think I'm a little too pretty for him, or something(?), maybe; I'm blonde, white, blue-eyed, 5'7" with an athletic build. And NYC has so many attractive people. I'm probably just being dumb and superficial.
A lot of people (I mean the yuppies in my dating market) in NYC also just suck. They're terrible: dishonest, selfish, ignorant, self-indulgent, and-- in some really remarkable ways-- fragile. When I left for that one year, it sucked. I found a couple of seemingly nice guys here and there (who promise they're not going to disappear on me suddenly) who would then vanish after a couple weeks. It hurt real bad, and I guess that's my own fault for being naive. Doesn't mean that the nightmares will just go away because of my self-awareness, though. Right after getting back together with my boyfriend, I'd have nightmares about being on a date with some handsome, smiling man (who isn't my boyfriend), holding my hand, and I'd feel like I was burning up from the inside, with every fiber of my being telling me to run away.
It's been a year and I think I saw one of those guys on the street recently and the nightmares are coming back, except for the fact that I don't feel as much pain; rather, I'm a little interested.
I know this is stupid, and I probably won't actually do anything about it, but I'd appreciate some thoughts, feedback, and suggestions. Note that, yes, I have spoken to my boyfriend about this, and he said he's fine opening up our relationship, but I really don't want to do that because I feel like it emasculates him too much. He's already a little spineless.';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31091629";
String image = YELLING.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)11:48:56';
String comment = 'I'm tired of living with the notion that I come across as a manchild to other people. I don't even know if that's how I'm being judged but it's something that takes up residence in my mind.';
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String fullTitle = 'Should I propose board games to my date?';
int postNumber = "31091538";
String image = 9773974-6700753-image-a-8_1550073881582.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)11:23:26';
String comment = 'I met a cool girl online and we have a date next week. We were supposed to grab a coffee, go for a walk, play some pool and go to her place.
The problem is that the pool place is getting closed and we won't be able to make it. She was kinda let down by this fact even though
at first she wasn't too keen on playing pool, but I kinda made her want it, by implying that we could make it romantic if I'd teach her how to play.
She liked that idea. Either way, would it be find to propose board games in the place or pool or is it a lame idea for a first date that's supposed to end with us fucking?
And no I don't mean something nerdy like D&D but maybe Scrabble or something...';
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String fullTitle = 'Do minors actually matter? Or just majors?';
int postNumber = "31089660";
String image = Colby.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)01:54:22';
String comment = 'Doing a math major. Thinking of minoring in Chemistry.';
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String fullTitle = 'People lose interest in me';
int postNumber = "31091444";
String image = dba95ebe3bae992cfb1fcb7fa423aeea.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)10:59:50';
String comment = 'Ever since college I've always felt that people (not just women) lose interest in me once they get to know me.
Before college, I used to hang round with the nerds and was into nerdy hobbies like anime and Vidya. And I looked the part too with the glasses and the scrawny frame.
Once puberty hit, And it hit hard. I went from a 5ft podgy face kid to 6ft2 "thugish" looking guy
>Is what mostly got told I look like
When I was in college and had long hair and a motorbike. A lot of people (mostly the girls in my class) thought I was some kind of bad boy, and would ask for a ride on my motorbike or if I wanted to hangout with them. By the time I was hanging out with them and they'd ask me about myself, and I'd start talking about all my nerdy hobbies that I'd do.
I'd distinctly remember the looks of... "Discontent" for lack of a better word and all of them would literally be like "oh... Actually... I forgot I got to babysit/go to my aunt's/help my mum with something today. So I gotta go"
And they'd never speak to me again.
Even a fews years later at the gym. Now that I rock a buzzcut and have some muscle on me. Guys will start a conversation with me and shit and we'll have mural conversations for a while, by the time they ask me what sort of hobbies I'm into "clubbing, what football team I support, or if I play any sports".
And when I tell them my actual hobbies, they become distant and the mutual conversations we have become less and less until the only interactions I get with them are a passing "hey, you deadlfting today? Well I'mma let you get to it"
>This probably sounds like a ramble. But what I'm saying is that I feel people have a stereotype when they see me what I'm actually like they lose all interest in getting to know me further
Any advice? Or just continue being me until the right people stick around';
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String fullTitle = 'GIOYC';
int postNumber = "31084785";
String image = 12.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)10:12:21';
String comment = 'undefined';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31088432";
String image = 1693328309617963.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)21:31:26';
String comment = 'I cant do this fucking shit anymore. Im a virgin of 21. WHY DOES THIS SHIT HAPPEN? I THINK I HAVE BEEN FUCKING CURSED BY SOMEONE! I try with so many girls, but fail each time. For example, there is this girl who keeps looking at me in class at uni and I text her on insta and she fucking ignores me, and she was my ideal type as well. Its as if life is just trolling me at this point. The only time I had sex was getting fucked in the ass by a sleep paralysis demon. THIS FUCKING SUCKS.
I cant keep coping anymore guys.... I cant wait much longer for a girl to fuck me already. Its all I think about. Idgaf about uni or shit like that, its all completely irrelevant compared to the most pressing of issues, which is being a fucking virgin at 21';
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String fullTitle = 'Becoming a modern day hero';
int postNumber = "31087222";
String image = 96u595ztryp61.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)17:18:15';
String comment = 'I want to be remembered as a hero and great leader like Julius Caesar, Alexander the Great, and Napoleon. Someone who accomplished great things, inspiring people to follow them and make a lasting impact on their world.
Now they're long dead, and we're living in a very different world. I am certainly charismatic, but I don't have much leadership experience, and no military experience. I have considered joining the military reserves in my country, but I frankly don't want to give up my summers in order to get fully trained up, and I really don't see myself being able to stick to it. Even still, I live in Canada, whose military is irrelevant, and I have no delusions that it'll be conquering anything.
On the topic of delusions, as much as it pains me to admit it, I'm aware that it's incredibly unlikely that I will ever achieve a fraction of what the great people in history will accomplish. With the current economic state of the world, it's likely we're going to be seeing Great Depression era conditions, and no heroes came out of that. Even still, that dream lingers nonetheless.
What is the modern day battlefield where I can prove my greatness? How do I become someone that the people of the future will look back in awe?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31089126";
String image = 1621185126370.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)00:12:19';
String comment = 'How do I find time to play video games?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31089366";
String image = 1535239562270.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)00:51:50';
String comment = 'Didn't really know what board to post this on (don't want to post on soc because of the NSFW content), but have any of you tried doing standup, open mics, or entertaining others? Was thinking about trying it out or getting into it, and I think I would be at the very least different than the usual crowd it attracts.';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31091310";
String image = 1712961830986704.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)10:16:02';
String comment = 'I recently moved out of my mother's house and live with roomates in another town, my roommate are often loud and invite their friends to drink and smoke weed, they also come into my room often to ask me to come drink with them or to ask for money, they got me a job at the place they are working at but the job sucks ass, i have to work night shifts and everyone there thinks I'm weird/retarded and the manager treats me like shit, I mentally feel like shit but it would feel stupid to quit a job I just started and move back to my mother's house, what should i do?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31091056";
String image = ad1.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)08:57:30';
String comment = 'How can we be good?';
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String fullTitle = 'Deep web forum';
int postNumber = "31090933";
String image = IMG_20240410_032244.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)08:22:21';
String comment = 'Can somebody tell me about some dark forums where you could actually ask anything no matter how dark and get serious helpful answers unlike in here? Thanks';
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int postNumber = "31082849";
String image = 9 11 package.jpg;
String date = '04/17/24(Wed)23:57:51';
String comment = '>former fwb guy friend of 5 years (probably my closest male friend) is super excited for me to meet his new gf
>we are both 26
>I show and he's sitting across from a 20 year old girl who is still school (college)
>as we talk I learn that he met her when she was 18(!?)
I feel like he is throwing his life away. How can I relay this to him without seeming weird?';
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int postNumber = "31089863";
String image = blyat.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)02:45:11';
String comment = 'recommend me <0 crypto/shitcoins/memecoins that will steadily rise into 2025-6-etc.';
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String fullTitle = 'How to safely post someone's photos anonymously?';
int postNumber = "31090537";
String image = 5c1.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)06:22:03';
String comment = 'Basically I sort of have a thing for this girl a little bit, but I feel like I am being pussy whipped so whats an effective way to get a review of her appearance? I don't want to somehow trace back to me if I post some photos of her but I want some people to bring me back down to tell me if she's actually hot or ugly.';
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String fullTitle = 'scared of getting sloppy seconded';
int postNumber = "31088592";
String image = a0759610342_10.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)22:14:53';
String comment = 'with the rising topics of men and women, and body counts and virginity and all that gender shits, and andrew tate, and those "whatever podcast". I'm starting to get scared of marrying someone who is not a virgin, or getting sloppy seconded, makes me feel so fucking cucked and massive injury to ego, it's insane.
there's a girl i like rn, and she's getting attention from lots of guys, but she likes me also, we're keeping it cool right now because it's forbidden to date in our settings, but im so fucking paranoid and scared and getting images of her getting railed and fucked by those dudes, and i end up being the sloppy second, i cant take it man. she's like my soulmate or some shit, i know its just rubbish but it hurts so bad.
also i read this study about how women retain dna of every men that have sex with, WTF? if i marry this girl and she had sex with all these guys, my child will have their DNA combined, ultimate cuckoldry, fucking disgusting. i think i need some therapy, but any advice on dealing with such situations?';
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String fullTitle = 'Social Anxiety and Body Dysmorphia';
int postNumber = "31091389";
String image = 1606054228565.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)10:43:57';
String comment = '>Crippling social anxiety
>Also crippling body dysmorphia
Almost all the time I feel like there is something wrong with what I look like and I feel extremely self-conscious and it feels like people can all see my glaring flaws and are judging me for it.
There are many reasons for my social anxiety but the BDD and general poor very self-esteem/self-image are probably the biggest problems - I feel very inferior compared to everyone else and am scared of them as a result.
What am I supposed to do?
I can tell myself there's nothing wrong with my appearance and even if there is it doesn't matter that much and people aren't paying attention to me all day. Even if I know it's true logically I don't believe that internally. It doesn't change the fact that I look in the mirror and think what I see looks retarded.';
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String fullTitle = 'How do I tell a 50 year old adult to stop being homeless?';
int postNumber = "31091141";
String image = IMG_7157.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)09:28:36';
String comment = 'My friend’s mom is 50 and has been homeless ever since I’ve met her a couple months ago. At first I was compassionate but now I’m just annoyed as shit by it cause her son pays for his own stuff and has the mindset of a normal functioning adult so I don’t fucking understand how that can’t be hard to grasp for a 50 year old when a bunch of 20 year olds in a house can act like functioning members of society. This woman doesn’t even have a job yet she is using her sons shower, ect.
Am I an asshole for being frustrated by this? I don’t believe she is mentally or physically disabled.';
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String fullTitle = 'Post-Graduate Group Lunch';
int postNumber = "31091257";
String image = Screenshot_20240419-095721-016.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)10:03:34';
String comment = '>Finished College
>Profs invited us today for some casual lunch to chill and talk before we graduate
>It's raining like a bitch outside
>Still waiting from calls back from jobs I applied to, I know that it'll be a point of discussion within our lunch table
I'm trying to weigh my options here, should I still go to the lunch and touch base with my classmates and profs one last time before I graduate or should I just go back to bed and not embarrass myself?';
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String fullTitle = 'Grasping at straws';
int postNumber = "31083960";
String image = 372891010663.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)05:58:49';
String comment = 'I am a cat haver, and do nor react well to the bacteria in their saliva, so I've been using a cup with a lid with a straw to avoid them drinking from my cups.
However, I lost the straw that came with it, so I need a new one. Help me decide on a material.
>Plastic
The last one was plastic and it was ok, but I avoid plastic so it'd be best to get something else this time
>Metal
Sounds good on paper but I hate the feeling of my teeth scraping against metal
>Wooden/bamboo
This sounds like the best idea, but wouldn't it sorta have a wood taste? And do these even last?
>Glass
Another good idea but I'm scared a cat will knock the cup over because shattered glass is a pain to deal with
>Just drink from a bottle
I avoid plastic, also bottled water has this weird aftertaste that I'm not fond of.';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31091330";
String image = pepsweat.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)10:26:06';
String comment = 'I whined about something in another thread, then got bullied about it.
This made me mad and I did something about it, now I feel much better.
Anons... w...were the bullies always right?';
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String fullTitle = 'Cute waitress, to pursue or not?';
int postNumber = "31091106";
String image = cute waitress.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)09:15:43';
String comment = 'There's this super cute cafe waitress in India that I frequent at. Cant quite place what's so cute about her but I so want to get with her! But she's lower income class and lives in an area I wouldnt. It aint slums but its one of those congested housing areas. So I'm scared what diseases she may harbour even with her femininity. Anon, any advice whether I should pursue a prospective handjob on her bed or just leave it as a fantasy?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31090397";
String image = 151762504078.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)05:36:07';
String comment = 'Hi, I'm a 23 year old brit with zero work experience due to dealing with severe social anxiety and depression for years. Lately, I've been considering getting into buying and reselling to earn some cash. Is it a viable option, or has that ship already sailed? Any success stories?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31087163";
String image = GLZkBfUWgAALuEU.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)17:08:20';
String comment = 'What does it mean when someone asks how you met your husband?
Why did they ask that';
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String fullTitle = 'How to make friends at ‘Hobbies’';
int postNumber = "31090924";
String image = IMG_6888.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)08:20:10';
String comment = 'I work 60hrs per week in 12 hour shifts as an Agency Nurse. I work between 3 different hospitals on different wards and basically never see the same people at work twice.
Consequently I have no friends and no time to do anything other than drive, work, drive, gym, cook, laundry, and sleep.
First of all what the fuck kind of ‘Hobby’ can I even do which runs 7 days per week at odd hours so that I can even attend it?
Secondly how do you make people your friends from meeting them at the hobby? Or is the hobby supposed to be a substitute for the type of social activity you’d do with a real friend?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31088732";
String image = ab67616d00001e02e63ee0af2aef200a2f9c66ff.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)22:49:51';
String comment = 'What conversation starters are the best for women?
I'm really bad at starting conversations, and I have this woman I'm interested in in my class.
I haven't even engaged in a real conversation with her, although you could say we know each other by greeting each other almost every time we see each other.
She really gives off vibes of a girl I'd like to date; I'm not in love with her, but I am interested and want to meet her.
But I'm terrible at starting conversations out of nowhere. Especially with girls I'm interested in, I get nervous to the point where my brain thinks the best option in moments where I could be spontaneous and talk to her, is to stare in another direction and avoid eye contact.
Any advice?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31091169";
String image = 1713533442028.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)09:37:00';
String comment = 'Everyone around me has long surpassed me in every way thanks to not falling victim of unlucky circumstances. How do I not kill myself?';
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String fullTitle = 'need help';
int postNumber = "31083407";
String image = 1631715833479.png;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)03:35:41';
String comment = 'hey guys i don't know what to do, what should i do?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31087175";
String image = 1710003037532334.png;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)17:11:01';
String comment = 'I have no friends or social circle, but I have money. Where can I travel (inside the US and Canada) to try and find a wife material girl?';
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String fullTitle = 'Dealing with Awkwardness';
int postNumber = "31088425";
String image = fella.png;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)21:30:04';
String comment = 'How do I get over caring about Awkwardness? In social situations I function fine if everyone there likes or hates me, and it doesn't really effect me either way. However I have no idea how to navigate awkward situations and feel awful during them.
How do I fix this?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31087749";
String image = 1713464599727493.png;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)19:16:20';
String comment = 'I want to learn Japanese to pickup girls and read manga/games. What level do I need to reach?
I find the grammar interesting, but hate memorizing Kanji';
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String fullTitle = 'Tend to help myself';
int postNumber = "31091059";
String image = 10D8FF15-2DDE-4892-A472-E32A5884589A.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)08:57:55';
String comment = 'I wouldn’t call it theft, since my gfs grandparents always told me to help myself in their home.
But I still feel weird as fuck and am overthinking this.
I opened a bottle of wine out of their pantry last night and watched some movies downstairs. I am on good terms and know these people well. Its never been much if an issue, but now that I woke up sober I’m not sure if they will think I am rude for drinking without them first of all, and alone at night or too much since I finished it.
I usually bring a bottle over for dinner, so I was thinking whats the big deal, U’m just chilling watching some movies. It was extremely cheap but nonetheless opening the liquor cupboard seems like overstepping.
Should I tell them I had it?
Or just act like its not a big deal. Its most likely not a big deal as they tend to drink every day and include me when I am here. Very chill people, they wouldn’t tell me if they were bothered by it but whats the best thing to do since I regret it?';
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String fullTitle = '>be me';
int postNumber = "31090344";
String image = 1669456284287695.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)05:23:50';
String comment = '>below average guy
>go outside
>everyone scowls at me and looks at me like I'm a freak
>any awkward attempt at social interaction makes them hate me more and try to get rid of me
>literally nothing I say or do will change that
>even my own family is maliciously hateful towards me and excludes me
>I haven't done anything wrong, but they still hate me and don't want to include me in anything
>so I never have an opportunity to learn social skills and become this upbeat normie I was supposed to be
>they treated me like this even when I was a teenager so obviously there is no hope now
>doing anything at all except cocooning myself away with my electronic distractions simply reminds me of how fucked I am
it's over';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31090836";
String image = IMG_0734.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)07:52:26';
String comment = 'How do i kill my soul? I can not kill my body but i also can not keep thinking and feeling. How do i become a robot that just functions? All advice is very welcome. Ideally it would be things that do not cost money and do not ruin my health. So not alcohol or drugs. Maybe how to get in the right mindset?';
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String fullTitle = 'Hair Loss';
int postNumber = "31090835";
String image = b.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)07:52:16';
String comment = 'It took some time, but my natural widow's peak is finally on the move. Before I end up at Norwood 2, I want to do something. Is finasteride still the way to go?';
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String fullTitle = '/atoga/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything';
int postNumber = "31090477";
String image = 110432949_p0.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)06:02:53';
String comment = 'Don't you have better things to be doing?
Previous: >>31087382';
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String fullTitle = 'How do I look less scary?';
int postNumber = "31088131";
String image = 1713486470923.png;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)20:32:33';
String comment = 'Be me , mid 20s. Struggle with society anxiety. My only moods are being nervous or coming off as creepy from trying too hard not to look nervous. Is there a middle ground here?';
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String fullTitle = 'What am I doing wrong?';
int postNumber = "31087945";
String image = how-you-see-the-cross-reveals-your-relationship-with-jesus.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)19:57:52';
String comment = 'It's been rough for the past 1-2 years for me. I'm stuck in this endless cycle of self-hatred I cannot escape, all my friends have left me, and I don't have a close relationship with my family. I don't have anyone, I'm addicted to porn and I eat my feelings. I'm lonely, miserable and bored,
I do believe in a God, specifically the Triune God. I pray almost every night, basically begging for help, and yet help never comes. I'm a fat, lazy piece of shit who can't put his life together because I don't have an ounce of willpower in me. I was bullied severely as a child for my Weight/Autism. Because of that grew to dislike people, even people I called friends.
I've begged, and yearned for Gods help to change me, but nothing has changed this past few montts, almost a year now and nothing. Is there something I'm doing that's wrong? Am I not listening? I need help bros, I want to turn away from my old self, from my degeneracy, from my sin, and become a better Person
TL;DR: Been praying and asking God for help, but it feels like he's not answering.';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31090489";
String image = 1704867453197979.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)06:06:22';
String comment = 'Is there of work that pays(so not volunteer/intern) that is easy and does not require any education or experience which leave me a lot of time and energy to do other things';
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String fullTitle = 'Is it normal to not know many people after college?';
int postNumber = "31088843";
String image = 1920px-American_Progress_(John_Gast_painting).jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)23:14:54';
String comment = 'I'm 25 and work from home. I'm moderately financially successful and go out and do things quite a bit. However, I feel like I've drifted apart from people I knew in college and earlier over time. Part of that is due to moving around a lot. I have some friends I keep in touch with but I guess my question is, do most people only interact with the same few people daily as they become real adults or do most people actually have a large circle of friends and acquaintances? I'm not sure if it's due to being introverted, bad at reaching out or meeting people, not having extended family, moving, etc. I know I could do more to meet people like pick up hobbies and I'm not super lonely or anything but I just wonder how some people know so many others or if it just looks that way from the outside.';
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String fullTitle = 'weird recurring sex fantasy involving my brother's wife';
int postNumber = "31082565";
String image = IMG_0797.jpg;
String date = '04/17/24(Wed)22:04:31';
String comment = 'I keep have a recurring sex dream involving my oldest brother's wife and I don't know why, I keep picturing her naked or me having sex with her and it feels so vivid and real. She is an attractive woman, I'll admit but it would just be wrong and I don't want to be with her. Why am I having these dreams and how can I stop them?';
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int postNumber = "31089166";
String image = foot.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)00:18:04';
String comment = 'I think I got a burn by friction on my foot (in the red circle area from pic related).
I was at a muai thai gym, and while trying to do some middle kick, I think I hurt the foot I use as pivot while rotating (yeah, I probably did the rotation thing wrong, I barely have like 2 weeks going there). Now I feel this burning sensation and it's hard to walk for me.
What can I do to treat that? or what would be the best thing to do? It's the first time something like that happens to me.
That was just some minutes ago, I just reached home and the gym is nearby my home. Or maybe it may be something else, and not a burn... But I felt a really hot sensation when it happened.';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31088289";
String image = IMG_4440.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)21:06:09';
String comment = 'Im 29 and feel like a kid, because i think people verbally abuse me, how to be my own person and do the things i want and be more grown up?';
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String fullTitle = 'is porn the same as being a manwhore?';
int postNumber = "31089357";
String image = female-fire.jpg;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)00:50:30';
String comment = 'what I mean by this is , in some way I'm basically releasing the same dopamine that one would in sex and its with a new video every time. I always thought you know what - im a virgin and I'll work for a virgin woman but now I'm not so sure if thats true from a biochemical perspective.
Like should I even claim virgin/purity status if I jack off?';
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String fullTitle = 'Hell me navigate this hell';
int postNumber = "31087573";
String image = pepe-kid-cry.gif;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)18:38:57';
String comment = '26 M, I broke up with my first gf (19 F), of 1 year, 3 hours ago. She's the sweetest, kindest woman I have ever met in my life, who loves me to hell and back, despite me being an emotionless zombie. The light in her eyes when she looks at me and her smile when she sees me, I can't get it out of my mind. I have been crying for a month straight preparing for this.
So, why break up then?
Certain stuff bothered me - her lack of ambition in some aspects of life and some stuff I'd have to wait for - she can't sleep over unless she's married. But that shit isn't major. Yes, an annoyance, but I genuinely care for and "love" this girl, in my own mentally ill way. Should mention, I've been clinically depressed for 6 years now. Tried every AD out there, no use. Gym 6 times a week, no use. Great job and family ties, no use. Despite my depression, this woman glows when she sees me and would give her life for me.
The big trigger for this has been me being emotionless for the last 6 months. Ever since then, I've been in constant state of dread fearing what I did tonight. I go to a therapist once a week, desperately trying to awaken my emotions. She says she wants to marry me with no second thoughts, while that causes anxiety and fear in me. Any "future" with this girl makes me anxious and panic a bit, BUT I DON'T KNOW WHY. Why can't I love her the way she loves me? Why can't I appreciate the one good thing to happen in my garbage life? Why did I do this when I know I'm gonna be suicidal for god knows how long? Why did I do this when I still text her, like, as I type this, and already planned a movie date next week? Why did I have a need to break up because I feel "nothing", IF I'M CRYING MY EYES OUT AND MY HEART FEELS TORN APART? WHY AM I LIKE THIS? WHY DO I PROACTIVELY RUIN EVERYTHING GOOD IN MY LIFE?
cont.';
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String fullTitle = 'Hey guys retard here';
int postNumber = "31084440";
String image = officespace.gif;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)08:29:50';
String comment = 'I've been unemployed for some time now since I've been able to game welfare. The money, however, isn't enough. I don't have a lot of work experience and I fear that I might only be good for McDonald's. Historically, my stance has been "fuck that"
I want to work, just not there. Am I being too prideful? Do I just bite the bullet and start working with these teenagers?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31088795";
String image = korn.jpg;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)23:05:42';
String comment = 'How do I know if people look down on me?';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31090299";
String image = pexels-photo-1024960.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)05:10:41';
String comment = 'I met a woman who I seem to have pretty much everything in common with and we got along incredibly well. I honestly rarely feel very strongly about relationships, but this feels different. I want to ask her out, but she is a fair bit younger than me, and there's a 12 year age gap (24 and 36). Is that just too much? I don't want to be a creep or anything.';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31077234";
String image = maxresdefault[1].jpg;
String date = '04/16/24(Tue)23:30:19';
String comment = '>tfw gf's kisses have been tasting like cum lately
should I dump her?
I still love her.';
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String fullTitle = 'How should dating be?';
int postNumber = "31088452";
String image = uwe4cchpfz5c1.png;
String date = '04/18/24(Thu)21:36:18';
String comment = 'While I know dating in friend groups, church, school, and being introduced through family is now seen as taboo, would you rather keep dating online or have it change back to the way it was??? state your sex and age with the reply and explain your reasoning.';
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String fullTitle = undefined;
int postNumber = "31090531";
String image = 043.png;
String date = '04/19/24(Fri)06:19:34';
String comment = 'How do I stop obsessing over someone? It was over a year ago and we only dated for a bit but every time I see them not giving attention to me I want to kms. I don't even think it's love at this point, I feel like a narcissist desperate for attention. How do I cope with this? Do I just need to date someone else and it will go away?';