'>>31088337
Don't expect sex or a kiss, just have a good time and be flirty. If you expect sex or a kiss that's gonna show in your actions and that'll turn her off.';

'>>31088337
If it’s already been years and you haven’t been able to seal the deal it might be wash, pal. Not saying that to be mean, but I was in a very similar situation and wasted 2 years trying to win a girls affection only to realize she was only keeping me around for attention and validation. Succubi are real. Find a good girl to invest your energy into that won’t string you along. Hopefully I’m totally wrong. Good luck, man.';

'>>31088337
tell her you're sick of her bullshit and to never contact you again and see what she does';

'>>31088337
>several emoticons
>rizzing you up
Pussied done dried up, you are never meeting IRL.';

'>>31089261
anon. I would like to see you flirt over text. It will always look cringe. But she knows how I am in real life and the way I text is semi ironic.';

'>>31089352
>anon. I would like to see you flirt over text
Not that guy but I'd like to see you flirt over irl kek
I hope you act the part bro. Texting is easy because rejection doesn't hit as hard. If you're texting her for YEARS and it never got anywhere it's over. Face to face I bet you're all talk and no action.';

'>>31088337
The fuck does "rizzing you up" mean?';

'>>31089747
he boutta level 10 gyatt with';

'>>31089854
exactly';

'>>31089854
>he boutta level 10 gyatt with
https://youtu.be/UeS-Xb5u4-U?si=cPTKYsjkNFHWyPIQ';

'>>31089352
>semi ironic
Dried up. Like the Sahara.';

'>>31088337
Why do you want to date a trash woman like this. She let you flirt with her while she had a bf which shows you she's not loyal and will cheat on you. The fact you've been orbiting her for this long is sad. She's not going to date you or let you fuck.';

'>>31088337
>girl entertains flirting while in a rs
>thinks this exact thing wont happen to him as well';

'>rizzing
If I were a woman and any boy Im texting used zoomer slang unironically I would get the ick immediately';

'>>31088337
>trying to court this girl for years
>years
you fucking what m8?';

'It's so over';

'>>31090317
Well... I have good news. You will never be a woman.
>>31089747
rizz is short for Charisma. rizzing you up is slamg for boosting your confidence.';

'>>31090659
>rizz is short for Charisma
I googled it and apparently it's actually not, it's just some made up tiktok word that sounds gay.';

'>>31090681
>using google
well I'm an actual zoomer and yes it does.';

'>>31090708
did you tap into the zoomer hive consciousness and assimilate this knowledge from the ether?
>Coined by YouTuber and Twitch streamer Kai Cenat (or one of his close friends) around May 2021 and popularized on TikTok in 2022.[1][2][3] Rizz further increased in prominence throughout 2023 and was chosen as the 2023 Word of the Year by Oxford University Press.[4] Contrary to popular belief, Cenat has confirmed that the term is not short for charisma.[1][5]';

'>>31090659
>You will never be a woman.
Great! Because being a woman is retarded and gay';

'>>31091043
chaRIZZma';

'> That’s sweet. When we do hang out we can do normal things.

It’s so over lol. She’s using you for attention OP. Everyone reading the texts, including her, can feel your desperation. She knows it and is enjoying toying with you like a lost dog';

'>>31088337
You understand that you are literally "The Backup Guy"?
Which means best case you are temporary till something better comes along.';

'>>31091100
yes we know why you think that but that's not the source >>31091043
saying it means charisma is basically people trying to find logic in what was originally a nonsense word';

'>>31088337
Who is who in this conversation?';

'The text on the right is more invested than the text on the left, two responses to one response';

'>>31088337
You will have my time

>trying to court this girl for years
>trying
>years

You are not going to like this, but you will have to accept this. Women live off attention, validation and complements. Sex, intimacy, gifts and such are not THAT important if some one guy already provides it. This is why women are obsessed with instagram, likes, being approached in public. The guy she really is into would get sex in the same day, or at leats a blow job. You are covering her needs for free while getting blue balls, and she loves it

>has never gotten mad at my advances
You are a man, you dont understand. Free attention for a woman is like free sex for a man, why would she be mad

>Not sure if this will be the "green light" or if she'll still be wanting to just be friends.

You know that she knows that you have so low options and self esteem that you wasted YEARS on a average woman just for naked pictures and blue balls. Think about it. Reread it. She FEELS your low value. You are just a maybe backup option

Now, lets see the text exchange

First message, a WOMAN is telling you, a leader, a big man how things will be going. She doesnt respect you, justifiably so

Next, you are using emojis, thats super feminine, they are called EMOjis for a reason. You are trying to please her through text, while guys like me use texting just to set a date with her and fuck her brains out the same day

Second message, you are chasing and pedestalising her, ready to please

Third message is super cringe. Bruh, an average woman gave you NOTHING and you are saying things that a husband of 10 years wouldn't say. No options, no self respect

Fourth message, sweet coming for a woman is an alarm bell. Sweet, nice, adorable, thats what you use for kids. She doesnt respect you

Fifth message, again, you are showing eagerness and obsession for a woman that you havent even slept with, come on, thats pathetic

You are inexperience insecure nice guy pleaser, you will be used and heartbroken.';

'>>31088337
you sound like a desperate loser tbqh';

'>>31088337
>>trying to court this girl for years
>years

dude, if you havent closed the deal within a week, or maybe, in extreme situations, extreme rare situations, two weeks to a month it is absolutely over

it sounds like beta orbiting

she is using you for attention and validation

how can you be string along for years';

'>>31091128
doesnt that still mean he'll be sleeping with her?';

'bump i feel good';

'you're delusional. she has no interest in you. if she does, then that means she has been unable to secure a relationship with other men which is NOT a good thing.';

'>>31091841
SIR PLEASE IMMPART SOME YOUR KNOWLEDGE TO ME. GENUINELY ASKING YOU!';

'>rizzing
consider ending yourself filthy zoomer simp';

'>>31088337
please, kys.';

'this place has such a crab in the bucket/lobster tank mentality. Half of you can't even find a girl to talk to let alone get her number.';

'>>31096198
You are right, but, on the other hand, don't you find the whole situation pathetic taking into account the context that has been given by op?
>trying to court this girl for years
Lots of time invested in nothing
>was giggly when I flirted while she had a boyfriend
Le redflag. Possible cheater.
>zoomer memespeak';

'>>31088337
OP, pirate this book from libgen

https://www.amazon.com/Possibility-Sex-Lustful-Manipulated-Regularly-ebook/dp/B009LMY46Y

tl;dr

>You're dealing with a manipulative timewaster
>You're being hypnotized by pussy to waste your time and be her orbiter
>You're a no-balls faggot for beating around the bush and texting
>You're suffering from scarcity mentality and need to change this

>You should state your intentions to her, preferably irl and stop wasting your fucking time';

'In the past I’ve wondered why a guy suddenly seemed incredibly depressed after being really fun and flirting with me for a while. When I see threads like this, it makes sense.';

'>>31096668
It's because the sudden realization hits. The time that passed between those flirtatious interactions until she finally decided to be real with you. It's devastating. OP for example has been looking to get the girl for years but then something kicks in, at first it's a muted echo, but as time goes by it builds up into a dejection parade, ice cold awareness of the realization he wasted all those years getting nowhere instead of being honest.';

'Very off topic seething but:

the people who get hooked up on zoomer speak or white ebonics or whatever are so fucking retarded. If you really feel some type of way about it pick up Shakespearean translation books and start talking like that. See who sounds more autistic. Language evolves. Get over it before you're unable to communicate.
As far as I'm concerned its just two twenty something year old kids talking to each other. I'm able to use context clues to pick up what they're saying. Its just so fucking annoying to see the same complaint for YEARS. And you know the first Knight probably had everyone in medieval Europe cringing when he said "groovy" or some shit and it spread.';

'>>31088337
Please be bait. You can't possibly be this retarded';

'>>31096786
fr fr';

'>>31096786
no cap';

'>>31096786
ong lil bro';

'>>31088363
this is surprisingly good advice, OP must not appear to not have other women as options in things like this.';

'>>31091043
>coined by nigger youtuber
i will never say nigger words like "rizz"';

'>>31088337
damn bro is fucking thirsty he could drink an ocean.
If she isn't dried up you gotta lock in bro. Just be her "friend" and spend time with her, wait for the signals.
women don't like desperation.';

'>>31096786
for the culture bro';

'>>31098121
you just did...';

'>>31089890
>>31089854
What the fuck';

'Grab her by the back of her neck look her in the eyes and kiss her while grabbing her ass. If she denies you ghost her. This requires extreme skill coming from your position. Good luck.';

'>>31088337
Maybe she's worried her Bf will read her texts?';

'>>31101035
>Maybe she's worried her Bf will read her texts?
Don't people use Snapchat for that shit?';

'RED PILL LESSON

Invite her over to come play some games because you are bored. Make it a tuesday. This has two outcomes: a) She leaves a dust cloudf whereever she was standing and 30min later your doorbell rings. This usually ends with you laying some mean pipe. Then throw her out. No Kiss goodbye. Call her again next tuesday. b) She tells you she cant right now because bullshit excuse. This ends in you blocking her and spending your tuesday with something more productive like working out or trading shitcoins or having a beer with a good buddy.

Do never ever chase pussy. If she is interested nothing in this world will stop her from driving half the planet away over to your place to get her back blown out. If she is not, there is zero atrraction to you and you need to let it go. Get an escort if you want sex, no time wasted.';

'>>31088337
Your second text is simp overdrive. I wouldn't even say that to a girlfriend; (maybe a fiancee or wife) get a grip OP, you giddy faggot.';

'>>31096668
lol';

'>>31101143
hgtawg here
how many women have you slept with?';

'OP here... haha :(';

'>>31103575
it's over';

'>>31103575
Cut your losses man. Already bad enough you’ve wasted literal years of your life trying to woo this bitch

Move. On.';

'>>31103575
>>31088337
As a man, why are you texting like that?';

'>>31104120
Lets see your texts?';